Dr Phil spoke to Alysse, the other woman in a nine year affair. She said that she is in love and has two children with a man that is controlling her life.
Dr Phil: The Other Woman Comes Clean About Affair
Alysse’s morals are completely out of whack. She’s been dating a married man for the last nine years and is currently pregnant with their second child. She wants to be open about her love and is over feeling like the shameful secret he keeps from his wife. Dr Phil hopes to shock her with a wake up call.
Alysse and her married man have a three-year-old son and she is five months pregnant. She believes that they have had a very close and loving relationship, calling him her best friend, but the lies are tearing her apart.
Dr Phil: Married Man Fathers Two Children With Mistress
Her boyfriend told her when she got pregnant the first time that she could have $20,000 if she got an abortion. When she got pregnant the second time, he told her that she was ruining lives by having the baby. He wants nothing to do with their children.
Looking back, she sees how this looks like an affair. Having two children with a married man wasn’t smart, but it’s where she is at. Alysse doesn’t know why her boyfriend offered her money to abort her first son. She still believes that she is in love with him. She was on birth control, but she still got pregnant the second time.
Even though Alysse knows she shouldn’t, she has seen her boyfriend recently. She doesn’t want to, but he acts lovingly toward her and tells her that she is the most important thing in his life. She knows that it’s not really love, or else he wouldn’t ask her to abort her children. She’s completely under his spell.
Dr Phil’s Advice For Women Caught In Affairs
Alysse told Dr Phil that she is currently studying for a doctorate in clinical psychology. He asked her to give him advice as if the roles were reversed. Alysse said that she would tell the person to find a support system and cut off contact with the man. She would tell her patient that she’s worth more than this relationship.
Dr Phil agreed that was pretty great advice. He told her, in a not as nice way, to kick his butt to the curb. Her boyfriend has no respect for her and isn’t her friend. A best friend would help her, support her, and never treat her like this.
Alysse has fallen in love with a fantasy and her boyfriend will never be what she wants or needs. It’s pretty clear to her now that she has been played and it’s time to move on for her and her children’s sake.
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